Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Take Your Time

On March 22 the Olafur Eliasson's exhibition "Take Your Time" closed at the Dallas Museum of Art. This exhibit was a fascinating collection of work by the artist. I personally had a chance to experience this exhibit a few months ago at the DMA. I felt as if I was in a giant science experiment. Each installation had something in it that engaged a different sense or feel. The brilliance in Eliasson's art is, that it is incomplete without the viewer.

This exhibit was truly a once in a lifetime experience for me. Hopefully you had a chance to see "Take Your Time" but if you did not I put some links below that will give you a good idea of what this exhibit was all about. Enjoy!



Monday, March 30, 2009

Radio Days

Driving back from Austin this weekend, I frantically searched for the Louisville-Michigan State game on my radio dial. As you may know, yours truly had picked the Cardinals of Louisville to win the entire shootin’ match, as they say. As you may further know, Louisville went on to lose that game and my interest in the Final Four has, as a result, waned. Anyway, I never found the game on any radio station AM or FM. However, in Belton, I managed to pick up the Rangers-Angels spring training game on the all-powerful KRLD. It came in loud and clear, I could have possibly picked it up even further south had I been surfing the radio dial earlier.

Every year when I hear my first broadcast of the season, I am flooded with so many reminders of youth. For as long as I can remember, we have listened to Ranger’s baseball. It is a part of who I am. I can remember as a very young child, laying in bed and hearing my dad’s radio barely audible over the window unit. Mark Holtz and Eric Nadel there with me until I would fall asleep. I can remember leaving a game early because my Uncle Mike wanted to beat traffic and Texas was losing badly so we listened to the end of the game on the way home. The Rangers batted around and Odibe McDowell won the game for the Rangers in the home half of the ninth by belting a grand slam. I also recall listening to Nolan Ryan getting Ricky Henderson looking for his 5,000th career strikeout – we were on our way home from Six Flags at the time.

I would lay in bed at night (while I was supposed to be asleep – I usually had to be in bed by the 7th inning stretch) with my earphones on listening in as Bo Jackson feasted on Rangers pitching; and I recall the hope and enthusiasm of an organization conveyed through its broadcasters when they would mention young Ranger prospects and how they were faring in the minors – Rodriguez, Gonzalez, and Sosa. It was a sad day when Mark Holtz left the radio booth for the TV gig. We were still able to hear “Hello Win Column!” but it just wasn’t the same for some reason. Now Holtz is gone, of course. No one has ever sounded as good next to Eric Nadel. I don’t know what I’ll do the day he leaves the broadcast booth for the last time. That to me will symbolize the final great passing of my youth. Listening to him call baseball games serves as somewhat of a soundtrack for my summers and a backdrop for the re-living of sweet memories from days gone by. It’s a shame the Rangers have never made it to the World Series – I would like to know how the boys of summer sound in autumn.

Coldplay - "Life in Technicolor II"

Imagine if you will, arriving at a small party and witnessing the unexpected half-time entertainment that turned out to be Coldplay, the greatest band ever, taking center stage. Apply the most imaginative marionette show possible to a harmonious rock display that leaves you truly speechless and there you have it. Pure brilliance. This video will be an artistic favorite for many, many years to come. Conceptually speaking, this level of creativity has not been seen in this manor previously. Coldplay needs no introduction. However, some of you may not be familiar with this latest song, "Life in Technicolor II" that is Coldplay's fantastic new single from the Prospekt's March EP. "Life in Technicolor" was released on their Viva la Vida LP that many are familiar with. Their music is legendary to say the least. It's been a part of our lives for many years. And this most recent video is going to be a hit for many more years to come. They have a 'making of' video that is viewable on their Youtube site. Click Here to view it.

If you haven't yet had the opportunity to enjoy the fluid dream-like lyrics of the group, and their melodic rock compositions, take the time to check them out.

Sunday, March 29, 2009

Our Lord's Surprise Visits - Oswald Chambers

"Be ye therefore ready also." Luke 12:40

The great need for the Christian worker is to be ready to face Jesus Christ at any and every turn. This is not easy, no matter what our experience is. The battle is not against sin or difficulties or circumstances, but against being so absorbed in work that we are not ready to face Jesus Christ at every turn. That is the one great need, not the facing our belief, or our creed, the question whether we are of any use, but to face Him.

Jesus rarely comes where we expect Him; He appears where we least expect Him, and always in the most illogical connections. The only way a worker can keep true to God is by being ready for the Lord's surprise visits. It is not service that matters, but intense spiritual reality, expecting Jesus Christ at every turn. This will give our life the attitude of child-wonder which He wants it to have. If we are going to be ready for Jesus Christ, we have to stop being religious (that is, using religion as a higher kind of culture) and be spiritually real.

If you are "looking off unto Jesus," avoiding the call of the religious age you live in, and setting your heart on what He wants, on thinking on His line - you will be called unpractical and dreamy; but when He appears in the burden and the heat of the day, you will be the only one who is ready. Trust no one, not even the finest saint who ever walked this earth, ignore him, if he hinders your sight of Jesus Christ.

Saturday, March 28, 2009

Special Olympics 2009

The pop pierced the air, echoing off of the surrounding bleachers. Cheers erupted as the crowd clapped and encouraged the students. On the track, the athletes were running, all in their own individual way. One boy had long, smooth strides, another with his head down, barreling forward with all his strength. The young man at the rear was laughing heartily while his arms were flailing, having the best time of his life. Though only one would win the blue ribbon, you never knew the others didn’t come in first as the excitement shone on their faces!

This was the scene surrounding me as I attended the Special Olympics hosted by the Grapevine-Colleyville Independent School District at Panther-Mustang stadium on Wednesday the 25th. We took a small group of boys from Heritage Middle School to compete in the games and the bus ride to the stadium was filled with electricity. Each one discussed what events they were participating in and how they expected to make out. Two boys made a friendly bet with each other, whichever one lost would have to wear a tutu to school the next day with a t-shirt that said “I love tutu’s!” Of course, that bet never came to fruition.

Tandy Blackstock of Grapevine Middle School was the main organizer of the event, and she did an outstanding job! There was a refreshment suite with food from Chic-fil-A and Krispy Kreme donuts, along with water and sodas and fresh fruit for the volunteers. The opening ceremonies left nothing to be desired as the fire department presented the flag in their traditional kilts. A student by the name of Patrick sang a moving rendition of the National Anthem as we all placed our right hand over our heart. When they began to announce each school district, I silently hummed the theme from “Rocky” (it just felt appropriate!) Schools from all over the metroplex came to participate, including Arlington, Keller, Birdville and so many others.

This was not my first Special Olympics to have the joy of attending, and it definitely will not be my last. If you have never had the pleasure of watching these amazingly talented and special athletes compete, and seen the smiles plastered on their faces, you really need to put it on your bucket list! It will bring lasting joy and happiness to you and the students!

Friday, March 27, 2009

Mothers of Preschoolers

There are other worlds out there that I am unfamiliar with. I recently discovered there is a world of competitive frog jumping at the Calaveras County Fair. People go through great lengths to prepare themselves for this event. They have to catch their frogs, care for them, train them, and transport them all the way to the fair. Although I am now fascinated with this world, I previously did not know it even existed. I have every intention of making it out to that fair at some point in my life. Sometimes you just don't know what is out there until you experience it for yourself.

Motherhood is the same way. Some days we try desperately to catch, care for, instruct, and transport our children. There truly is no way to really prepare for the world of motherhood. Complete submersion, sink or swim is the only way to really understand all that is involved in helping our little ones grow.

You can plan and read until your eyes cross, but nothing can really prepare you for the moment you finally get to bring that little bundle home. You understand that they are completely dependent on you for every single need. It can be quite overwhelming and even intimidating. Am I going to scar this child for life if I choose to bottle feed? Will my child resent me forever if they don't get enough tummy time? Will my son be the only one still wearing pull-ups at high school graduation?

Motherhood can be a daunting task. It can be filled with the highest highs and the lowest of the lows. Such a big undertaking is not meant to be done alone. Moms need to know there are resources out there to help equip and encourage them where they are. Mothers of Preschoolers (MOPS) is an international program designed to do this. It is designed to provide a support system for moms still in the throws of sleepless nights and temper tantrums. I remember the overwhelming relief I felt at my first MOPs meeting. I discovered I was not the only mom that had pajama and PBS kids days! There were other moms out there, just like me, trying to do the best job that they could do with their children.

MOPS has changed my life. It helps me to be the best mom that I can be. It offers insight, a break, encouragement and some much needed perspective. I sincerely hope that moms of little ones know that there is a system in place designed specifically to help them with where they are in life. Check out their website www.mops.org to find a group near you-because mothering matters.

Thursday, March 26, 2009

Cop Keeps NFL Player From a Dying In-Law


You know, things like this really make me wonder if hearts are as important as heads in specific circumstances. The answer is of course yes. What a difficult situation to be involved in, losing a loved one. It is never easy. Grace is called for in life on a daily basis. That includes showing it as well as receiving it. How much more would have been gained from showing that rather than making a traumatic experience multiply a true hardship? Much more.

Motivational speaker Lyndy Phillips from Amarillo, Texas says in his seminars,"When you meet someone, that person leaves you feeling either better or bitter." How true that is. Even in a brief instance you have the opportunity to enrich someone's life and to show them your character. If you are authentic and treat others as you expect to be treated, people can be transformed if only for a moment by seeing the good and positive aspects shown from one human life to another. If however you mistreat a person, they go away from you feeling angry, hurt, or worse.

Let us keep in mind that when we see someone, we are not sure what they are going through in their personal life. It could be dire pain or extreme joy. Approach people with a smile and offer them kind words and see about making a positive impact on someone.

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Taking Care of Your Emotional Health

In 2008, stress became the number one cause of deaths in the United States. Actually it wasn’t but it does cause a massive increase in that stubborn belly fat. Which brings me to my question. With the overwhelming amount of stress in our lives today, what are you doing to relax?

Stress is commonplace and over abundant with many Americans. Busy schedules, feeling the strain of the disastrous economic financial crunch, less time with family and friends and working nonstop is taking its toll on us all. Most of us desire to be productive individuals. And with the job market the way it is, we are willing to spend additional time committing to work related projects. We desperately watch every penny that comes in and try to save what little we can while scraping by. Fluctuating grocery prices, rising medical costs, steep childcare expenses and even with the volatile rise and decline of gas prices, it is enough to drive us all crazy. And realistically it makes us lose hope. So what can we do to alleviate some of the stress?

Consider spending some time with yourself for starters. Do some of those things that you enjoy. Health professionals recommend meditation, yoga, massage, and exercise to help cope with stress. Couples plan dates together. Enjoy a night out away from the children with your spouse. Rekindle that flame and delight in each other’s company. Experiencing the arts is also a great way to relieve stress. Creative expression brings a positive spin into a stagnant routine. Play your favorite instrument or perhaps spend time learning one. Go hear your favorite band performing at a local venue. Paint a masterpiece. Read a new novel or an old classic or write your own form of verse. If the price of gas isn’t too cost prohibitive go for a cruise. Put the top down on the convertible and take the family for a scenic drive. Fire up your motorcycle and enjoy the freedom of the open road. Go sailing on your boat. Fish or camp with your family and friends. Deepen your spiritual growth. Volunteer to help others. Creative your own adventure and plan time to enjoy life.

Individuals that practice effective stress management show signs of fewer physical symptoms, such as headaches and back pain. They lower blood pressure. Fewer emotional responses, such as anxiety, anger and frustration are attributed to gaining a personal peace. More energy, improved concentration, greater ability to handle problems and more efficiency in daily activities are also byproducts of controlling tensions. And if you are feeling better about yourself, you tend to exude a confidence that strengthens your relationships with others.

Don’t let stress get you down. You don’t have to spend money necessarily to relieve stress. But it is important to make sure that your own health is a concern and controlling stress benefits you greatly.

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Think Small

When I was a kid I used to love to press play and FFW at the same time. This instantly made the music more fun. Suddenly it would sound as if the chipmunks were singing my favorite songs. I could get the same effect when I would take a deep drag off of a helium balloon and then say something to my friends. This always got instant laughs. We loved the idea of something being smaller. Something being so tiny that it even sounded different. Most of the the things that we find joy in, in life, come in bite size pieces, not huge packages. I think this is something that we had a better grasp on when we were kids. We knew, back then, that if we could hold something in our hand or find a way to look down it, all at once, we could instantly understand it. This week I have been studying a photo process that creates this same effect, visually.

Tilt/ shift photography is a technique used to make the subjects in images appear to be model size. Most of tilt/ shift photography is accomplished with spacial lenses shooting from aerial positions. The process is to take an image that would normally be in full focus and blur parts of the image to create depth of field. This draws attention to the subject in the image, as if you were looking at it through a magnifying glass. The ironic thing about tilt/ shift photography is, in shrinking down the subject and drawing your attention to a single object within these vast spaces, you actually come away with a better understanding of what you have just seen. Below are some great examples of this technique that I have found on the web. Remember the images and video are completely real, they are not models.


Although, true tilt/ shift photography takes a skilled eye and special equipment, there are a few ways to have a little fun even if you are not a pro. Tiltshiftmaker.com is a web application that allows you to create some tilt/ shift images with your own photos. I tried this site out and it works! Your results will depend on how well your image is suited for this filter. Follow the instructions on the site and you should have pretty good luck. Once you develop an eye for this type of image you might try to create the same effect in a photo studio program like Photoshop™. Below are some of the photos that I created at tiltshiftmaker.com and with Photoshop™. Keep in mind I did not originally compose any of these photos below for this effect. Enjoy!

Monday, March 23, 2009

And So It Begins

I am venturing where few brave men have ever dared tread. I am doing something I have never done before - something so terrifying I am not sure if I will even survive the ordeal. I am coaching my sons' T-ball team this season.

I tried to stay out of it. Really. I had no desire to subject myself to the kind of punishment that only T-ball coaches have to endure - scheduling practices, figuring out who's bringing Capri Suns next week - you know the routine. I assumed that I would again get an opportunity to coach one day but really thought it might be when my sons were a bit older. But, the league needed another coach and since one-sixth of the team was my flesh and blood, I answered the call. I am the Dwight Eisenhower of Van, Texas T-ball. The position of coach sought me, I did not seek the position.

Since being involved with this, I have been reminded of a few things I may have subconsciously forgotten since I left the academic coaching ranks. I have been reminded why so many kids are burnt out on their sports by the time they get to highschool. Youth sports have become more of a hobby for adults and parents than a means of teaching kids about team concepts and work ethics. At the lowest of levels, we emphasize winning too much.

As a high school baseball coach, I loved to win. Winning is important at those levels. It teaches athletes a lesson on the fruits of labor. But as I listen to rec-league coaches and officials discuss ways to make T-ball more competitive, I am greatly discouraged because I know that this blind infatuation with the game of baseball or the vicarious living out of youthful dreams will only lead to resentment of the sport later on during adolescence. The job of T-ball coaches is to let kids enjoy the sport and teach the fundamentals of the game. It is even appropriate to introduce some baseball etiquette and lingo.

Perhaps I am too old fashioned and the game has already passed me by. Maybe a good T-ball coach should try to win at all cost. Nothing is like it used to be and that's a hard pill to swallow sometimes.

Sunday, March 22, 2009

The Burning Heart - Oswald Chambers

"Did not our heart burn within us?" Luke 24:32

We need to learn this secret of the burning heart. Suddenly Jesus appears to us, the fires are kindled, we have wonderful visions, then we have to learn to keep the secret of the burning heart that will go through anything. It is the dull, bald, dreary, commonplace day, with commonplace duties and people, that kills the burning heart unless we have learned the secret of abiding in Jesus.

Much of our distress as Christians comes not because of sin, but because we are ignorant of the laws of our own nature. For instance, the only test as to whether we ought to allow an emotion to have its way is to see what the outcome of the emotion will be. Push it to its logical conclusion, and if the outcome is something God would condemn, allow it no more way. But if it be an emotion kindled by the Spirit of God and you do not let that emotion have its right issue in your life, it will react on a lower level. That is the way sentimentalists are made. The higher the emotion is, the deeper the degradation will be, if it is not worked out on its proper level. If the Spirit of God has stirred you, make as many things inevitable as possible, let the consequences be what they will. We cannot stay on the mount of transfiguration, but we must obey the light we received there; we must act it out. When God gives a vision, transact business on that line, no matter what it costs.

"We cannot kindle when we will
The fire which in the heart resides,
The spirit bloweth and is still,
In mystery our soul abides;
But tasks in hours of insight will'd
Can be through hours of gloom fulfill'd."

Saturday, March 21, 2009

The First ‘Fore’

How many firsts actually drive that desire to once again capture the initial feelings located with a first act. You may immediately begin thinking about your first kiss from that special someone. You might recall the excitement of your first day at a new job and how in your first hour you already saw yourself making a huge difference with the company and becoming CEO by the end of the week. That unforgettable first car that you got when you turned sixteen also comes to mind. The first solo drive when you got your license. So many firsts come to mind. What about with golf?

I think about my personal love for the game. I remember diligently working during high school and saving money to purchase my first set of clubs, Wilson Arrows. I spent hours at the driving range developing that perfect swing. Hours spent on the practice greens learning to navigate the variables of trimmed grasses. And more importantly I recall hearing the distinct sound of the ball dropping in the cup at the bottom of the hole nineteen feet away.

As I began to actually play, my first par and birdie were celebratory milestones. And that of course started with my first double and triple bogies that progressed on to a bogey after much practice. I remember playing golf often with my friends and family. My brother and sister were both on the golf teams in high school. During golf seasons we could be found together after school and work on the local courses playing a round or at driving ranges hitting balls. I remember the first time that I creamed a ball with my driver and flew twenty yards past my father, the seasoned golf veteran of the family. I still enjoy trips to the local Byron Nelson Classic. In 1997, when Tiger Woods was proving himself as an unstoppable golf force, I had tickets. I awaited golf greats to pass by my friend Jeff and I who sat in a perfectly shaded spot by the green of hole seventeen through out the day Championship Sunday. So many wonderful and special occasions still bring smiles to my face even after many years when recalling golf firsts.

One of my favorite memories is when one of my closest friends Shane decided to play golf for the first time. As we approached the first hole on a busy summer afternoon Shane was asking for pointers. Knowing full well that golf is arduously learned through the practical application of theories and countless hours of practice I told him to simply tee up the ball, swing the club, and hit it as far and straight as he possibly could. I teed off first so Shane could watch and mimic my moves. Selecting my driver, I knocked my ball 300 or so yards straight down the fairway, which wasn’t too bad with a breeze in our faces. All in all, a good shot. Then Shane teed up his ball.

There were two groups of amateur, self-proclaimed golf pros in foursomes behind us waiting their turns to tee-off. They quickly began critiquing Shane’s every movement as they could sense him struggling at the onset with his stance. I was standing even with Shane’s ball facing him to give what little direction I could. Shane stepped forward and backwards a few times. He adjusted his grip on the club. Then stood with his legs a bit too far apart and corrected the awkwardness as best he could. With all of his might, he brought back the driver and swung for the fences.

In a split second as Shane struck the ball and yelled “Fore” there was a thunderous CRASH that sent bystanders ducking for cover. The crowd of momentarily frightened men that flinched at the sound of the deafening BANG, then began to laugh uncontrollably. Directly to the left of the green twenty yards away, was a tool shed and dumpster. To this day I am still not quite sure how the ball took an exact ninety-degree trajectory course and ricocheted repeatedly between the two. Immediately a startled employee flew out of the tool shed nearly falling down as he ran asking what had happened. The small crowd then erupted with a violent laughter as the employee slowed and stood looking around with a puzzled look on his face.

The day was a blast filled with lots of laughter and a small amount of first time frustration. I always enjoy a great game of golf. Especially with good friends. And that is a shared first that I will never forget.

Friday, March 20, 2009

Dinner Time With the Family

Time spent with the family as a whole is a rare and fleeting idea. I hear stories often about families that have dinner separately, in their own rooms or in front of the television separate from each other. When do they talk, find out what’s going on in each others lives, and just get to know each other, especially as the children are growing and changing daily?

One tradition my mother has kept is having a family dinner once a week with everyone. My younger brother comes with his fiancé, my little sister, my grandmothers, grandfathers, dad, and my husband and our children. We have four generations that gather together and break bread. It is such a wonderful way for us to take time out of our busy schedules, slow down, and enjoy precious time that we will never get back. I enjoy hearing the stories my grandma tells when my daughter asks her questions about growing up. I love listening to my brother’s expertise on wine, or what his feelings are on the latest movie to come out. My sister is in college, so hearing her frustrations about classes and tests warms my heart and makes me wish I was back at school again, taking better advantage of it this time than I did the last time. My dad always has a funny anecdote or story to tell, and if we are really lucky, he has been practicing on a card trick to share with us. And then there is my mom. She always makes the meal, and tries to cater to everyone’s likes and dislikes, humoring the vegetarians and the meat eaters, so we all will go away filled. She refuses to serve us on paper plates, although it would make her evening so much easier. She always wants to make it feel special by having us eat on glass plates or the china. There are always candles lit and soft music playing on the radio to give a warm atmosphere, a feeling of home and love. I cherish these weekly meals, this time around the dining room table eating, laughing and bonding together. I believe these will be wonderful memories for my children, having dinner with not only their grandparents, but their great-grandparents also. Not every child is so lucky, and not every parent is so lucky as to see this sweet exchange.

Family dinner used to be a given, not even a slight thought leaned in the direction of eating apart. But now, many families consider themselves lucky if they can have one sit down meal together a month because everyone’s schedule is so crazy and seems to take precedence over family time. I’m lucky because my husband and I made the conscience decision to have family meals with our children nightly, no matter what, and they don’t know any different. And then once a week we are blessed enough to have a generational meal, a meal shared with loved ones, and time we can never get back.

Thursday, March 19, 2009

Bobby Knight Discusses Ice Skating. What?

In a recent ESPN Radio broadcast “Mike and Mike in the mornings”, the guest speaker was the ever energetic, hard-nosed basketball coach and sports analyst Bobby Knight. This coach is a legend known worldwide for his charismatic coaching and winning seasons in the realm of college games. With the NCAA March Madness happening, Bobby was on air to give opinions on this years’ college teams and to predict the endless possible outcomes.

As the interview started all seemed normal. There was small talk, the exchange of stats and players and team records. Then interview turned weird. Mr. Knight got distracted.

"Now, before we go into any more basketball, I've got to tell you about the best athletes in the country, and they aren't American, they're Russian," Knight said. "They're Russian ice skaters. I went to see them last night at the Riviera with (wife) Karen, and the title of the show is Ice. This was the most incredible athletic scene for an hour and 20 minutes that I've ever seen. Unbelievable."

When Bobby Knight finished stating this, the ESPN hosts were thrown for a loop. They were literally stunned momentarily. After an awkward moment they were able to get the show back on track. And just as they thought that all was well, retired coach Knight again interjected.

"Don't forget the Russian ice skaters," Knight said. "I'm telling you, these guys, it must be 40 people, men and women, and they are the most athletic people. ... There's a girl that gets 11 hoops going at one time from head to toe while she's skating. ... I've never seen a group of athletes like this."

It struck me as a bit odd initially, but I enjoyed the laugh, as did many others. Hats off to coach Knight for speaking his mind and challenging all competitors to become true elite athletes. Ice skaters.

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Bringing Back "Vintage" - A Visit To Zola's...

Today I had a wonderful afternoon sharing lunch, laughter, and time with my friend, Chris, as we hung out in the Bishop Arts District of Oak Cliff Dallas. The city is really working on revitalizing that area and making it a much more desirable and nice place to not only live, but also visit, as it is in the arts area.

After we had a nice lunch and shared memories and laughter with each other, we decided to walk up and down Bishop Avenue and go inside the interesting variety of shops and galleries that are there. So many eclectic and unique shops to see, it was so much fun! One shop I fell in love with was ‘Zola’s Everyday Vintage’ which specializes in clothing and some knick knacks from the 1950s through the early 70s, my absolute favorite time period in fashion and décor! I met one of the owners, Annette Norman (she co-owns the shop with Diedra Sutton) and she was so kind, helpful and outgoing. She named the shop after her grandmother, Zola, which I find very special and sentimental, since she was dear to her. Annette had a wonderful display of vintage wedding dresses that were stunning, from the 50’s through the 70’s, all gorgeous examples of their time period. Annette and I started talking about the beauty of these dresses, and how they just don’t make styles like that anymore, and she mentioned how neat it would be if girls would think about going vintage for their weddings. If only I have thought of that when I got married nine years ago, it would have been something I more than likely would have done since I naturally gravitate towards vintage and past styles (my students at school jokingly call me a “hippie”).


So together, Annette and I are here to get the word out about these classy and unique vintage dresses. She had several exquisite wedding dresses for sale at great prices, but two really stood out to me. One was from the late 60s. Reminiscent to me of something Juliet from Shakespeare’s “Romeo and Juliet” would have worn. Cream colored with lace down the front, crochet around the tulip style sleeves, a square cut neckline with a high collar around the back of the neck. Stunning! The next one I was drawn to could have been taken from the closet of Jackie Kennedy-Onasis. A fitted pearl color satin dress with a slight off the shoulder neckline, which richly flows to the knees was one I saw and fell in love with. Long sleeves, with buttons at the wrist were beautiful. Looking at the dress, your breath is definitely taken away, but wait until you see the back! The neck goes into a slight v-cut, then a drop at the back that goes to mid-calf, again with buttons gathering a slight bit of the fabric just below the waist. I could just imagine this with a birdcage veil hat, gloves, and diamonds or pearls draped around your neck.

Vintage is new again, and is starting to enter it’s way into such events as weddings and cocktail parties. If you are looking for a one of a kind, different and classy wedding dress that has stood the test of time, ‘Zola’s Everyday Vintage’ is the place for you to visit! With their friendly, outgoing service, wonderful prices and their belief in what they are doing, this is the store you must visit! They do have a magnificent selection to choose from. If you would like to visit the shop, the address is 414 Bishop Ave. Dallas, 75208. You can call them at (214) 943-6643, or visit their web site at www.zolasvintage.com. Happy vintage shopping!

Monday, March 16, 2009

Ladies and Gentlemen, Make Your Selections Now

It is time for March Madness again - that time of year when brackets are passed around the office and hopes rise and fall with the performances of the NCAA tournament's heroes, underdogs and Cinderella stories.

For those of you too busy or lazy or indifferent to research who is going to the dance and which teams will make a run through the tournament, please allow me to assist.

In the Midwest:

Upset Alert - I like number 12 Arizona to knock off number 5 Utah. The rest of this regional should go pretty much as expected. I like USC over Boston College in a minor upset.

I think this division will come down to two college basketball powerhouse: Michigan State and Louisville and I give the nod to Louisville.

In the West:

Upset Alert - The only upset I like in this regional is number 10 Maryland over number 7 California. Go Terps!

Texas ties - Though it pains me to say it. I expect BYU to knock out Texas A&M in the opening round. Sorry, Aggies.

This division should offer some great games. If things go as I expect, look for match ups featuring UConn vs. Purdue (Give me UConn), Memphis vs. Missourri (I'll take Memphis) and Memphis and UConn squaring off to decide who will go to the Final Four. Be smart and take the Tigers of Memphis.

In the East:

Upset Alert - The only upset I project is number 9 Tennessee defeating number 8 Oklahoma State.

Texas Ties - Look for the Longhorns to go down in the second round to the hungry Blue Devils of Duke.

Overall number 1 seeded Pittsburgh should have a cake walk to the Final Four. Duke could prove me wrong but I doubt it.

In the South:

Upset Alert - Western Kentucky has the goods to pull off a big upset of number 5 Illinois. This would be huge and I'll go out on a limb and pick them but I'll stop short of giving them Cinderella status because I think Gonzaga will beat them in the second round. I like Michigan over Clemson in the first round as well. This would be seen as a minor upset but it would not be totally unexpected.

Texas ties - I am proud as I can be of our East Texas SFA Lumberjacks but I just don't see them beating the Orangemen of Syracuse.

Like the West, look for some great games in the third and fourth rounds. The third round should go like this: North Carolina vs. Gonzaga with UNC coming out on top. Syracuse and Oklahoma will go head to head with the edge going to OU. That means Oklahoma and North Carolina will play for the chance to advance to the Final Four and my pick is the Tar heals of UNC.

The Final Four -

The finals should shake out as such: Louisville and Memphis with Louisville advancing to the Championship. The other half of the Final Four will feature a Pittsburgh-North Carolina match up with UNC coming out on top. In the title game, two of my favorite programs will square off and in a Louisville-UNC championship, I am selecting Louisville as my 2009 NCAA Champions. Good luck, Cardinals.

When filling out your brackets, you can take the advice of experts and do some research or you can use the coach's wife approach and choose teams based on team color schemes and mascots. I am not so sure that one way is better than the other but hopefully I have helped someone. Remember, get those brackets filled out before Thursday!

Sunday, March 15, 2009

The Passion - Something to be Passionate About

by Ed Young

"Just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we who are many form one body, and each member belongs to all the others." Romans 12:4-5

The church has been called a "body" of believers with Christ at the head. And just like our human bodies, the body of Christ has many parts. But what are these parts? What does this body consist of? Is it the church building, the classrooms, the landscape, and the parking lot? No. The body of Christ consists of much more profound and important parts than physical locations or buildings. The parts of the body of Christ are you and me.

Without each of its parts, a body will not function the way that it is designed. If your nose were missing, your body would not function to its full potential. Without your shoulder, your arm would not be as useful. For the church to function as the vehicle to spread God's message of truth, hope and love, all of the parts of the body must be present.

But there is one more thing necessary for the body to reach its potential. The parts of the body must be functioning - they have to work. If you have ever broken your arm or leg, then you know how useless that broken limb is until it is working again. That is true with the church too. Just showing up for one hour a week to worship corporately is not enough to keep the body healthy and working. God wants each of us to use our gifts for his glory and to use those gifts to serve in the church.

Too many of us, though, put church and service at church on the back burners of our lives. We cram our schedules full of events and activities until there is no longer room for everything. And too often church is what gets pushed aside. But that is not what Christ intended. He wants us to live our lives with the church - to do life with church as a priority. And nothing should take priority over living the life that Christ wants for each of us.

This week, remember that you are a vital part of the body of Christ. Remember that you are needed in order for that body to reach its potential. Use the gifts that you have to help spread God's message. Remember, the church is one thing that Christ was passionate about. It is something that you should be passionate about too.

For more information about this or other subjects, visit the Ed Young Ministries website: www.edyoung.org

Saturday, March 14, 2009

Fascinating, Truly!!

A trend started peeking its head out around 2006, picking up speed in 2008 with the release of the “Sex in the City” movie, and now the hottest retro comeback in 2009. The fascinator!

Originally, the fascinator referred to a delicate, lacy head covering worn by a fine lady, not unlike a shawl made from wool or lace. It is a style of millinery, a headpiece, and the term fell into disuse by the 1970s. Now the term can be heard often, especially in circles of women who like to pay tribute to the days when being a lady meant wearing a hat out, a throw back to the 1800s through the 1960s. When someone now refers to a fascinator, it has a slightly different meaning, describing a delicate, somewhat frivolous head decoration made with feathers, flowers and beads. They can also use pearls, or crystals and can be made as petite or extravagant as you want. They are an alternative to wearing a hat, and many times, an alternative to wearing veils in weddings. They are an adornment, an addition to your beauty, and can make you feel so feminine!

Many women are turning to fascinators with birdcage fronts in place of the traditional veil when saying their vows. The “birdcage” refers to stiff, wide holed tulle or lace that covers only the eyes, down to about the bridge of nose. Think Lucille Ball in the 50s hit “I Love Lucy.” She loved to buy hats (much to the dislike of Ricky) and they often had a birdcage front. They easily attach to the hair by a comb, headband or clip. Fascinators are also extremely popular at premium horse racing events, such as the Kentucky Derby, the Grand National and the Melbourne Cup. But honestly, a fashion savvy woman with confidence can wear these beautiful pieces of art to any occasion, from dinner out with a significant other to going with the girls for a night on the town!

Fascinators are becoming easier and easier to find, both at specialty shops and online. I was able to find many cute, trendy, elegant and fun different styles online, just by googling 'fascinator'. However, they are also fairly easy and cost effective to make on your own! If you’re like me, and not the best with a sewing machine, no need to worry! I found a how to website, where the hardest decision you have to make is what adornments you want to glue on your fascinator piece! The address is http://www.burdastyle.com/howtos/show/271. There are also many other how to sites that include instructions on making one using a comb or clip. The site I referred to makes a fascinator with a base to it, which to me, makes it easier to cover your mechanics, making it look more professional. When making your own creative fascinator, remember to make it YOURS! Your favorite colors, style and be creative, it’s about expressing yourself and making yourself feel beautiful!

Friday, March 13, 2009

What is chiropractic?

So that is the million dollar question. I wish there was 1 simple explanation to cover all of chiropractic, but the fact is that there is not. Chiropractic is a science, a philosophy, and an art, which is why all chiropractors will give you a different definition when asked.

The general goal of chiropractic is to detect and correct misalignments in the spine that may be causing problems in the body. I don't think I would find too many to disagree with that basic premise. If you are currently searching for a chiropractor or are currently a patient of mine, it really only matters if you agree with my philosophy or view of what chiropractic is and not the whole profession. If my goals for your health are in line with your goals for your health, then I should say we are a good match.

With that in mind, here we go...

There are 4 basic principals to understand. First, we were designed to be self-healing, self-regulating organisms. Second, we have an innate intelligence within us. The nervous system is the master system that is used to express our innate intelligence. Interference of the nervous system leads to dis-ease in the body and a diminished expression of life.

My plan is to take each premise, and over the course of the next few weeks, explain the meaning of each. Hopefully once I am done with all 4 you will have a much better understanding of what chiropractic is and some confusion will be removed.

The reason I'm not going to do it all in one sit down is because I don't like to cause eyeballs to glaze over and I want to make sure you can fully digest each morsel I give and taste it and appreciate it for what it is worth.

As always I look forward to your comments...

Thursday, March 12, 2009

Wow, What a Statement!

We are all aware by now of Michael Phelps' recent incident involving him having a picture taken while smoking an illegal substance at a party. Although he never accepts responsibility for what he did, he stated that it was a mistake and that he used poor judgment. There are a few things that bother me about this.

The following expert was taken from Yahoo Sports in an interview Phelps gave to NBC.

In an interview with NBC’s Matt Lauer, the swimming star didn’t directly answer the question of whether he was smoking marijuana.

According to excerpts released by the network Thursday, Phelps replied: “It was a bad mistake. I mean, we all know what, you know, what you and I are talking about. It’s a stupid mistake. You know, bad judgment. And it’s something that, you know, I have to, and I want to teach other people not to make that mistake.”


USA Swimming suspended the Olympic great for three months after the photo was published in a British tabloid Feb. 1. He also lost his sponsorship from Kellogg.

Phelps has previously apologized for his poor judgment.

The photo was taken at a house party while Phelps was visiting Columbia, S.C., in November during an extended break from training after he won a record eight gold medals in Beijing.

“There was probably two or three people there I didn’t know,” he said. “It was a very small group. Six or seven people probably total in the whole house. Like nothing major. You know, not like a giant college house party. It was nothing like that. It was just a small group and we were just sitting around and celebrating.”

Phelps said he trusted his friends that the people he didn’t know there could also be trusted.

“I’ll say that there are a lot of people out there who want to take advantage of any situation they have. … Sometimes you learn the hard way,” he said.

There is a cavalier attitude portrayed about this when he speaks about the photo. It's clear that he is not genuinely upset by his actions. Instead he is upset at the misfortune of getting caught. He thought everyone at that party could be trusted. Why is it that people in the celebrity spotlight are treated so much differently from the majority of the rest of the world? We've all made bad choices in our lives. And we have all learned from them, hopefully. But from my experience, when one is truly sorry for the hurt and anguish caused, there is a brokenness that is apparent in the manor of that individual. Disappointment is letting down a friend or family member, or others that look up to you. Remorse is evident and is essential in recovering trust.

Personally, though the incident happens daily and is appalling, I could care less that he made a bad decision and that I had to hear about it. By now these actions by the rich and famous are the norm. We are used to it. It's unfortunate that popularity allows actions to be accepted because bad actions are expected. I wish there was a true standard of honorable living felt by all role models today. Perhaps one day as age paves the way for wisdom, celebrities will gain a bit more humility and realize that chasing self indulgent desires and not caring about consequences is fleeting. There are many public figures and heroes that care what others think. I'll continue to listen to their words.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

peppermint-filled piñatas: breaking through tolerance and embracing love

A book that I recently came across is peppermint-filled piñatas: breaking through tolerance and embracing love. This book's author, Eric Bryant is a talented individual with a heart that is truly set on embracing people and loving them as Christ loves others. I had the pleasure of working with Eric over a summer back in the mid nineties. He is a genuine individual that has unique insights and a tangible grasp on how preceptions separate people from reaching across cultural barriers to embrace similarities. I reccommend this book as it may just open your eyes to how you view your relationships and reactions towards others. There are differences ranging from people to people and across cultural lines. Though they exist, we must learn to be tolerant of others in order to move past tolerance and find a common ground while cultivating a community of people that love, who listen to one another and who are willing to learn from each other. A broader vision is necessary to live in righteousness, stand by or morals, and love one another. Eric does a great job telling of his journey and expressing his passion for loving people in a heartfelt and humorous way.

The following is information and reviews taken from EricBryant.org.


We live in a diverse world filled with unprecedented opportunity. There is a call to move past the barriers that stand between us and those who may be different. Eric Michael Bryant has seen tolerance shown to those who are different than us — racially, religiously, sexually, politically, economically — and believes there must be more. After all, Jesus didn’t just tolerate people; he embraced them all with love.

Using lighthearted humor, engaging personal stories, and a “party theology,” Bryant shows us how to love our neighbors and fulfill the vision Jesus had for the church from the beginning.

Whether that is through building relationships with the help of bounce houses, stand up comedy, or piñatas, followers of Christ will be inspired to actively engage the world around them.

Reviews for peppermint-filled pinatas:

“Relationship evangelism is the message of this book from Bryant, ‘the bald white guy’ on staff at the 80-nationalities multicultural Christian community Mosaic in Los Angeles. ‘Love is the new apologetic,’ writes Bryant. For too long, he argues, the world has been made aware of what Christians hate rather than whom they love; what they are against rather than what they support. Christians, he says, ‘have created an environment where we are seen as judgmental, irrelevant, mean, and hypocritical.’ Mixing scripture, humor and personal anecdotes (including a great one about a filling station clerk), Bryant invites Christians to develop a ‘party theology’: invite others to share in your life, and accept invitations to participate in other people’s lives, especially if they are different from you in some way. The content is familiar: look to connect through a common cause, hobby or passion. Learn conflict resolution and practice it. Break stereotypes, whether they are ethnic, economic, sexual, religious or political. Apart from one confusing anecdote about a schizophrenic who seems to get well through Christian service, this is a solid book for Christians who have ‘head knowledge’ about relationship evangelism, but need encouragement rather than how-to steps to put that knowledge into action.”
-Publisher’s Weekly

Peppermint-Filled Piñatas is Saving Private Ryan meets Nacho Libre! Eric calls us to a heroic mission and at the same time exposes our flawed humanity. He tackles one of the most critical and complex issues of our time and brings it down to earth and keeps us grounded in reality. It’s quite a gift to force us to face such uncomfortable and serious issues and at the same time keep us laughing. Somebody needed to write this book; I am grateful Eric did. We will all be better for it. Thank you, Eric, for awakening in us a love that knows no boundaries.”
- Erwin Raphael McManus, author, futurist, lead pastor of Mosaic in Los Angeles

“In the times we live in, we desperately need books like Peppermint-Filled Pinatas. Eric understands the times, and because he does he gives clear and practical examples of how we can bridge the unfortunate gap between people in our culture and the wonderful, beautiful and incredible gospel of Jesus. We just gave Peppermint Pinatas to our key leaders at our church, as we believe his message needs to be heard and lived out.”
-Dan Kimball, author, speaker, founding pastor of Vintage Faith Church in Santa Cruz, CA

Monday, March 9, 2009

The Welcome Wagon

The other day I was sitting in the studio when the little red light on my blackberry started to blink. After watching it buzz and vibrate across the desk I checked it to see what was up. It was a message from my wife. She said she just got a new record in the mail, that had the coolest cover. She would not even attempt to describe it. She said "you just have to see it". When I got home and she showed it to me I couldn't wait to hear it. I knew that if the same creativity and craftsmanship went into the music that this would be an excellent record.

A Welcome Sound
The Welcome Wagon is a project by Presbyterian pastor the Rev. Vito Aiuto and his wife Monique. It is not just a great looking album, it also sounds great. The beautiful, traditional, Christian, folk lyrics mixed with The WW's original sound makes you think of old time, Sunday morning service. Except you could only wish your church was this cool. A lot of instruments and voices were used on this record, that, along with, a masterful production from singer/ songwriter Sufjan Stevens, gives us and album with something for everyone. The track "Sold! to the nice rich man" has a big pop, country sound that would be right at home on an eight track, CB radio, combo player. There are also a few surprise covers on this album; The Smiths' "Half a Person" and The Velvet Underground's "Jesus".

Get on the Wagon
This is one of those albums that does not quit from the first track to the last. I would highly recommend this album on vinyl. Don't worry, it comes with digital downloads. Or you can buy the "not as cool" version on iTunes™.

Don't Let the Door Hit Ya!

Short of firing the General Manager of his team, Jerry Jones took steps towards righting his ship this past week. Since he can't fire himself, giving Terrell Owens his walking papers was a good consolation prize. The Cowboys are a team in disarray and only time will tell if sending T.O. packing was the right move from a purely performance standpoint - the way Roy Williams plays in the spotlight will determine the success of the move in this aspect.

From a morale standpoint, things should already be better. No one likes to be called out by teammates - especially teammates who have never bought into the team concept in the first place. Athletes don't like getting barked at for dropping the ball by teammates who have a penchant for displaying the butter fingers themselves. T.O. was a distraction. His sideshow antics were old. What a sad thing to see so much talent just bounced around from team to team after one worn out welcome after another.

Another aspect to this move - and this is big - is that Dallas isn't afraid to add through subtraction even if it means eating millions of dollars in guaranteed money. If an all-pro receiver can get the axe, is anyone immune?

The best thing for Terrell would be to finish his career with a team like the Colts with a quarterback like Eli Manning who just oozes credibility. It will take someone with such a track record to be able to tell Owens to "Shut up" in the huddle and to let him know whose team it really is. He will need a strong quarterback if he is to experience success at a high level again. He did not have that in Dallas. Good thing for him he is going to . . . oh wait, that's right he's going to Buffalo where - say who's the quarterback there anyway? Good luck with that.

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Undaunted Radiance

The following is an excerpt from Oswald Chamber's My Utmost for His Highest.

"Nay, in all these things, we are more than conquerors through Him that loved us." Romans 8:37

Paul is speaking of the things that might seem likely to separate or wedge in between the saint and the love of God; but the remarkable thing is that nothing can wedge in between the love of God and the saint. These things can and do come in between the devotional exercises of the soul and God and separate individual life from God; but none of them is able to wedge in between the love of God and the soul of the saint. The bedrock of our Christian faith is the unmerited, fathomless marvel of the love of God exhibited on the Cross of Calvary, a love we never can and never shall merit. Paul says this is the reason we are more than conquerors in all these things, super-victors, with a joy we would not have but for the very things which look as if they are going to overwhelm us.

The surf that distresses the ordinary swimmer produces in the surf-rider the super-joy of going clean through it. Apply that to our own circumstances, these very things - tribulation, distress, persecution, produce in us the super-joy; they are not things to fight. We are more than conquerors through Him in all these things, not in spite of them, but in the midst of them. The saint never knows the joy of the Lord in spite of tribulation, but because of it - "I am exceeding joyful in all our tribulation," says Paul.

Undaunted radiance is not built on anything passing, but on the love of God that nothing can alter. The experiences of life, terrible or monotonous, are impotent to touch the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Saturday, March 7, 2009

The New Green Apple Notebooks

The following is taken from Apple's website. Many of you ask what machines are the best. I have worked on PCs using Windows servers for many years, networking, IT and everything in between. But I stand firm behind Apple products. They are fantastic. Apple offers great software that is user friendly and attractive. As well as productive and cutting edge. So when you are looking to purchase your next machine, think Apple.

When we designed the new MacBook, our designers and engineers set a goal of making not only the greenest notebook Apple ever produced, but the greenest family of notebooks. So every new MacBook has been built using materials that are highly recyclable and free of many of the harmful substances present in other computers. Apple engineers also designed the software and hardware to work together, in order to maximize energy efficiency and minimize the carbon footprint of the MacBook. Even the packaging was reconsidered and reduced, producing smaller boxes to ship and less material to recycle. The result is exactly what we hoped for: the greenest family of notebooks ever made.

Many harmful toxins eliminated.

Apple has worked hard to eliminate many of the toxins that are a common part of notebook manufacturing. Take, for example, the mercury used in CCFL backlights and the arsenic contained in the glass of traditional LCD displays. Apple engineers removed both by choosing mercury-free LED technology and arsenic-free glass. They also removed brominated flame retardants (BFRs) and polyvinyl chloride (PVC) from circuit boards, internal cables, connectors, insulators, shock mounts, adhesives, and more. Apple has removed these toxins from MacBook computers, and we’ve done the same for the Apple LED Cinema Display, iPod touch, iPod classic, iPod nano, and iPhone 3G.

Highly recyclable.

The MacBook precision unibody enclosure is formed from a single piece of solid, recyclable aluminum, replacing dozens of extraneous parts. The display is made of recyclable glass. Both materials are very desirable to recyclers, which means the raw materials used in the new MacBook computers can be reused in other products.

More energy efficient.

Because Apple makes both the hardware and the software for the MacBook, we are able to design them to work together. This allows us to make a smarter product that uses less electricity, earning it ENERGY STAR certification. For instance, to reduce energy consumption, the MacBook hard drive spins down automatically when inactive. The MacBook also decides which processor — CPU or GPU — is best suited to efficiently perform a task. The processor even throttles down to save power between keystrokes as you type. The LED-backlit display in the MacBook is another feature that plays an important part in conserving energy, consuming 30 percent less power than conventional LCD displays. And the display is designed to dim when you enter a darkened room. Together, these adjustments make the MacBook family much more energy efficient. In fact, our most popular notebook, the MacBook, can run on just one-quarter the power of a single lightbulb.

Click here for more information.

Friday, March 6, 2009

Petitioning for Warning Signs

On a warm July fourth weekend in Texas, friends and family were gathered together in celebration of the national holiday. Canton is a city located between Dallas and Tyler. Close enough to the big city to head there on a whim for shopping and fun, but secluded in a peaceful small country town set a part from the modern day hustle and bustle of suburbia. The day had begun with a country breakfast feasted on by young couples and their children. Everyone gathered around the table for eggs and croissants and ham, served with coffee and juice. The leisurely pace was much appreciated by all who were there. The opportunity to relax and enjoy the company of familiar individuals further developing lifelong friendships was a blessing. It was nice to slow down for a brief couple of days.

The afternoon was spent on the front porch deck watching the young children playing together. They enjoyed the companionship of their cousins in the same way that the adults remembered doing when they were the same age as their kids are now. The water hose was turned on for the greater part of a day. The children played in the water and in the plastic wade pool splashing about with the joyous laughter of youth.

The men watched their children play. They reminisced of old times as their wives caught up on the gossip. They recalled the mischief that they got into as teenagers. And how they had fun together at all things. They were in singing groups together. Yes, they were amateur songwriters and vocalists. They played sports together. The spent the night with each other and rolled girls’ houses that they had crushes on. And they were pranksters, each in their own way. Even as they were older, they still enjoyed playing a joke now and then.

As it grew later in the afternoon, as per tradition when living outside the city limits, the fireworks stand was visited. Several hundred dollars was spent on the nights’ upcoming entertainment. Bottle-rockets, roman candles, canons, sparklers, and a slue of other items were purchased and brought to the Johnson’s home.

As it grew darker outside and the large orange sun started to set, the men excitedly began preparing launching stations. Two liter bottles were buried in the ground at seventy degree angles. Perfectly measured trajectories when taking into account the wind velocity and range of their arsenals. The time was just about at hand.

The women sat up chairs in the lawn for themselves and the children and lit sparklers that started this years’ Fourth of July show. Spectacular homemade firework displays were a matter of pride for the men. The ladies laughed at their husbands’ anticipation as they could see them instantly turn into children again.

The launch pads were manned and the firing order scheduled. And with a final countdown the show began. Blasts of colors soared high into the sky exploding into multicolored starbursts that were a fantastic display. In the distance other independent firework shows were underway, but nothing compared to the barrage of bright color and sound that illuminated the Johnson land. And then, a dud exploded a few feet above the ground. With a loud pop it sent sparks and flames flying in the direction of a nearby fence. The embers that landed started a small fire.

The men ran over to the burning ground and began to stomp out the small fire. As the adrenaline rushed, Jason, Rodney and Kish frantically tackled the fire so as not to spread it into the open field were Jason’s livestock grazed. As they stomped, they laughed nervously as they could see their emergency reaction pursuits had just about paid off. A few flames had escaped into the pasture just underneath the wire fence.

Kish went to the flames grabbed hold of the fence and began stomping on the flames. “Dang it!” he yelled. A few remaining flames scattered a bit further from the fence line. He still grabbed hold of the fence and used it to steady himself as he stretched his leg forward and began to yell frantically. “Son of a gun. These flames are shooting up my pant leg!” Kish painfully yelled to the other men that had stopped extinguishing the flames and began laughing hysterically. Kish then realized that he was in a world of anguish while finally stomping out the last flames. “Jason, is this fence electric?” Kish asked as he let go of the top wire.

“Yes. Yes it is.” Jason replied with a smile on his face. “We use it to keep the horses from coming onto this side of the property. You just kept grabbing it. I was wondering how long it would take you to figure out what you were doing.” As Jason made that statement Rodney was in tears with the ladies as they laughed at the mishap.

“Wish I would have known that,” Kish said. “Or it sure would have been nice to see a sign or something.”

Thursday, March 5, 2009

The Wedding Dash

Spring is here and love is in the air. Many men have bought a ring and are waiting for the right moment to pop the question to that much anticipating love of theirs. After the engagement, the wedding preps begin. It’s a stressful but exciting time, especially for the women. The man usually just sits back in the wings and shows up at the ceremony, not taking much of a roll in the planning! Why is it we marry them again? Oh yeah, we love them. That’s why.

There are several trends this season in the wedding arena. One I’ll start with is the gowns’. Many women are adding color to their dresses that accent the colors used in the wedding theme. One trend is putting color in the train of the dress, such as blue or silver (gunmetal grey, steel, or brushed silver, which can be carried into other aspects of the weeding such as brides maids dresses.) These are hot colors this year. Another is just adding a trim to the rim of the bottom of the skirt. Both look very nice, are fashionable and classy.

Another trend has to do with the headpieces being used this season. Birdcage veils are very popular this year, instead of using the traditional long veil. The birdcage only covers the front of your face down to about your nose area and uses heavy netting in white or heavy tulle. It’s a throwback to the fifties, and I just love this look!! Very modern and classy at the same time, absolutely beautiful!

One last trend is the colors that are popular this year. The hottest are blues, in any shade. Combining these blues in lights and darks and everything in between is just plain HOT! Blue is traditional, timeless and classic. If you would like something to complement your blue theme, neutrals’ like creams and white are a great companion. Other colors that seem to be liked this season for weddings are sherbets, such as lemons, salmons, and pale pinks.

Just remember, over all, have fun! Each has their own opinion to give you while you are trying to make decisions. Smile, listen and understand that they are recalling their own happy occasion. But do what makes you happy on your special day. You don’t have to follow the trends if it doesn’t suit you! This is your day, and the only wedding you’re going to have, so make it uniquely yours. Do what brings a smile to your face!

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

I Am Not Drunk...Check My Necklace Please!

Medical alert identifiers, such as bracelets and necklaces are popular items worn by many individuals who have serious medical conditions. In case of emergency situations, these alerts can be viewed by emergency responders, or hospital staff and allow them to treat symptoms relating to a particular disease or condition that might otherwise go unnoticed or misdiagnosed. They can be very helpful in unknown circumstances.

They also can be a bit difficult to identify these days as the entire world has become more accustomed to stylish fashions and hot trends. New alert pieces can now be referred to as jewelry. They are intricate in design and are created with the hopes of not alienating or singling out individuals that wear them. Especially in the case of children and teenagers. And when responders arrive on location and find an individual that is unresponsive or acting peculiar, one of their first actions is to check for a medical ID. If it is not visible or clearly identifiable it may go unnoticed. Sometimes it does and that leads to longer recovery times or more difficulty in assessing a patient’s condition.

Diabetics show signs similar to that of drunkenness when their glucose levels drop. Many times police officers and EMS workers confuse the two. When a diabetic is found unresponsive and is unable to communicate a need for sugar, they cannot be differentiated between someone in a medical crisis and someone passed out due to intoxication. That is why it is important that alert IDs be worn at all times.

Medical IDs can be worn by individuals that have Alzheimer’s Disease, Asthma, Autism, Diabetes, Epilepsy, Heart Disease, Hemophilia, Hypertension, Parkinson’s Disease, and that have allergies to Latex, certain foods, and to medications like penicillin. These identifications can literally be lifesavers when emergencies happen.

If you do have a medical condition that warrants special attention, please be proactive and wear these items to assist those that may one day save your life. There are many stores found online that sale these items. Many local drug stores carry varieties as well. Click here to visit Medic Alert and to find out more information about medic alert IDs. Fifty50 Pharmacy is a great local pharmaceutical company and deals with Diabetic alerts and supplies. Their proceeds benefit the Juvenile Diabetes Foundation and can be reached online.

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

A New Groove

If you are like most people you are now buying most of your music online, using a service like Apple's iTunes™. These music services have revolutionized the way we consume music by giving us more choice and convenience. I am amazed buy the variety that I find online, when I am searching for music. Most of the time I have one of those "Oh I remember that song" moments. Online music has started and revived many artist careers. It has given us access to artist that we might have never heard of and some that we have completely forgotten about. But in this digital age, when everything that can be recorded in ones and zeros is at our fingertips, other, more physical, things are slipping away.

The B Side 
For those of us who grew up listening to cds, cassette tapes and vinyl, but in the last few years have converted our music library into digits, something has not felt right. We look down at our iPod™ and see what the album cover is supposed to look like, but beyond that we do not have anything tangible. Also, most digital libraries are not made up of albums but of tracks bought piecemeal, online, for 99 cents. We are not hearing the music like we are supposed to. A whole, two sided, album offered continuity, deeper cuts, and track placement that linked each song to the next. Instead of owning the works as they were originally composed by the artist, most digital libraries are made up of top 40 singles. It is the equivalent of owning a museum with paintings of Mona Lisa's smile or focusing in on one brush stroke in van Gogh's "The Starry Night." You are not seeing the full picture.

Back on tracks

The record companies have started to address this problem. About a year ago the independent record companies started releasing vinyl with digital downloads attached. This trend has become very popular and now most of the major artist including The killers, Coldplay, Radio Head, Beck, and just about anyone else who has released an album in the last year, have released their album on new vinyl. This is truly having your music cake and listening to it too. Every album I have bought lately has been on new vinyl. I still use the digital downloads for my iPod™ and computer but I like listening to the vinyl version when I can. Vinyl sounds great and looks cool. The analog warmth coming through the needle gives the music more weight and presence than the cold digital tracks. 

Put the needle on the record
It is simple to start your vinyl collection. Most major electronics stores have started selling turntables again and I will post some links to places online that sell new vinyl. Your iTunes™ library will stay full of digital tracks and you will also have the vinyl to listen to and look at. Perfection!

 
Links:
Amazon is a great new vinyl source. They stock most new albums on vinyl and reprints of less recent artist.  
This is a good source for new and used records. If you are not interested in the digital tracks and just want the vinyl you can usually find it here for a good price.
You won't find everything you are looking for at Waterloo online but if you ever get a chance to go to one of their retail locations, take it. It will take you back to the days of going into a record store, not knowing what you are looking for and coming out with something you are completely in love with. 
Polyvinyl is a whole record label dedicated to new vinyl. Every record they distribute is available on vinyl with digital downloads.

Monday, March 2, 2009

MLB Predictions

Well the season is just around the corner so here are my predictions for the year.

American League West

1. Angels
2. Rangers
3. A's
4. Mariners

note: 2-4 could finish in any order - Angels will win this division by 15 games.

American League East

1. Red Sox
2. Rays
3. Yankees
4. Blue Jays
5. Orioles

note: the Yankees will implode by August.

American League Central

1. Tigers
2. White Sox
3. Twins
4. Indians
5. Royals

note: Tigers go from worst to first.

National League West

1. Dodgers*
2. Giants
3. Diamondbacks
4. Padres
5. Rockies

note: Most wide-open division in baseball.
* Contingent on Manny Ramirez signing.

National League East

1. Phillies
2. Mets
3. Braves
4. Marlins
5. Nationals

note: Phils win in a nail-biter.

National League Central

1. Cubs
2. Cardinals
3. Astros
4. Brewers
5. Reds
6. Pirates

note: possibly the most competetive division in baseball.

World Series Prediction:

Red Sox v. Cubs
Cubs win in seven. The curse has to be broken sometime.
We Ranger fans will wait yet another year for our first playoff series win.